THE PORN
FREE MAN
First cohort starts
June 5th, 2025
THE PORN-FREE MAN is more than quitting porn - this is a group space to navigate quitting porn as a catalyst for self-mastery, sexual healing/empowerment, and heart-led purposeful living.
Quitting porn is about meeting unmet needs. In this program we are going to dissect those needs, rewire porn addiction, regulate our nervous systems, become emotionally fulfilled, intimately connected, and aligned in our individual and collective purpose.
This is Quitting Porn The Men’s Work Way.
Is TPFM Right For YOU?
Men who are ready to quit porn for good and want a proven system to do it.
Men who feel stuck in cycles of relapse and need real accountability and support.
Men who want to break free from numbing and avoidance to face life with clarity and strength.
Men who seek deeper emotional mastery and healthier ways to regulate stress.
Men who crave real, fulfilling intimacy and want to reconnect with their masculine power.
Men who are driven by purpose and want to channel their sexual energy into creativity, leadership, and mission.
Men who are done with quick fixes and are ready to do the deep inner work for lasting change.
The Porn-Free Man is for…
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This isn’t just about quitting porn—it’s about reclaiming your power as a man. We go beyond willpower and surface-level strategies by addressing nervous system regulation, emotional mastery, intimacy, and purpose. This is men’s work, not just another dopamine detox.
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No. This program is designed for men at all stages—whether you’re just starting or have tried quitting many times before. All that matters is your commitment to the process.
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Each call is highly structured with:
A guided drop-in practice to ground and center.
A check-in to build trust and accountability.
Deep teaching & discussion on one of the four pillars of quitting porn.
Breakout rooms & reflections to integrate what you’ve learned.
A check-out & commitment setting to keep you on track.
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Showing up live is highly recommended. While I will record the teaching portion, I will not be recording any of the shares. Given the sensitivity of this topic, I find it more important to provide that safety that will no doubt lead to deeper shares.
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Our TPFM WhatsApp Groupchat will be online and active for us to stay connected and accountable.
You’ll be paired with an accountability partner for ongoing support.
You’ll have weekly journaling prompts, homework & exercises.
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START DATE - Thursday April 17th, 2025
We will meet every Thursday for 10 weeks at 8pm EST
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$999 USD is the initial price. Book a free discovery call to see if you’re a right fit. AND for a discount code.
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If you’re serious about quitting porn, ready to do the work, and want to be surrounded by like-minded men on the same path, this is for you.
Meet Your Instructor
My name is David Bokser and I am the owner of No Man’s Land Men’s Work. I started NML with the intention to help men awake to their masculine energy, and come back to balance in such an imbalanced world. Quitting porn was a MASSIVE catalyst for me, and uncovered so much inner work. As I’ve been able to quit porn for good, I want to channel my overall mission to empower men into this avenue of helping men break free from porn use, while shedding the light on the truth of porns effects on the world. The Porn-Free Man is everything I wish I had in the start of my journey - and as your leader here, I am committed to deep honesty, integrity, confidentiality, and a CALLING FORWARD FOR ALL MEN. I will bring my all as I open this container to help build ALL of us into the men we are destined to be. The Porn-Free Man is everything I have integrated up until this point, and I am excited to give my everything in this container.
Read more about me HERE.
