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It’s Time For A New Type Of Man (Blog #6)

It’s time for a new type of man to rise.

Before pointing to a new type of man, I want to point out 2 starkly contrasting, existing types of men. The emotionally cut off tough guy, and the overly sensitive nice guy.

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A Porn-Free Man is a Free Man (Blog #5)

The sad reality is that, if you’re using porn, you are a slave to it. I know because I was a slave to porn. And although I haven’t used it in over a year, I still sometimes feel like a slave.

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Blog #4 : Embracing Rain.

I sit out on the front porch and feel the mist of the pouring rain.

Often, when it rains, you hear people say things like “What a crappy day.” At least that’s what Grandma Izzy used to say every single time it rained. Literally. Like clock work. But I don’t think she truly meant it. Only that she was programmed to think rain = crappy...

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Blog #3 : “You want more? They’ll give you more.”

A mushroom told me this once.

I was knee deep in my first solo mushroom ceremony back in 2018. I call it the Bar Mitzvah I never had. I’m jewish but not got to celebrate my “manhood” back when I was 13.

12 years later and I’m only now becoming a man.

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Blog #1 : Learning To Father Myself.

Like most men, my father had his issues. Issues that have impacted my family (a blog - or rather, a book - for another day perhaps). He died when I was 9.

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